Calm south-shore water, an aquarium built round a reef, and a very long road to Hana.
Maui Ocean Center
At Maalaea, focused entirely on Hawaiian marine life, with a walk-through ocean tunnel and turtles. Two hours is plenty; ages three and up.
Kamaole Beach Parks
Three lifeguarded stretches in Kihei with gentle shorebreak, grass, toilets and showers. Kamaole I is the calmest for toddlers on most days.
Baby Beach, Paia
A shallow lagoon behind a reef on the north shore where the water barely moves. No lifeguard, but knee-deep for a long way out.
Whale watching
Humpbacks calve in the Auau Channel from about December to April, close enough to see from shore at Papawai. Boat trips leave Maalaea; under-fives get seasick.
Sunscreen and the Hana road
Hawaii bans oxybenzone sunscreens, so buy mineral. The Hana highway has some six hundred curves and fifty-odd one-lane bridges โ bad news for car-sick children.